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Therapy for Seekers, Sensitive People, and Those Ready to Grow
Treating Individuals and Couples in Washington State


The Power of Self-Disclosure in the Therapeutic Process
Self-disclosure in therapy refers to the intentional sharing of personal information by the therapist with their clients. This practice,...
Patrick Scara
Jul 14, 20244 min read
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Navigating Mental Health in a Divided Political Climate
In today's polarized political landscape, the pervasive divide between opposing ideologies has not only reshaped the societal and...
Patrick Scara
Jun 24, 20245 min read
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Book Review: "Good Inside" by Dr. Becky Kennedy
In her insightful book "Good Inside," Dr. Becky Kennedy takes readers on a transformative journey through the landscape of parenting,...
Patrick Scara
Jun 16, 20244 min read
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Freud's Defense Mechanisms: Timeless Tools in Modern Couples Counseling
Sigmund Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, introduced the concept of defense mechanisms over a century ago. These psychological...
Patrick Scara
Jun 10, 20244 min read
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The Intersection of Trauma and Identity: Understanding and Reclaiming Your True Self
Trauma is an all-encompassing experience that can fundamentally alter our perception of self and the world around us. When individuals...
Patrick Scara
Jun 9, 20244 min read
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Balancing Independence and Interdependence: Cultivating Healthy Relationships
In a world where personal and relational demands often collide, finding a harmonious balance between independence and interdependence in...
Patrick Scara
Jun 6, 20244 min read
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Navigating Life Transitions: Building Resilience Through Change
Major life changes can be both exhilarating and daunting. Whether it's a career shift, a relationship change, or a personal...
Patrick Scara
Jun 4, 20244 min read
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The Art of Forgiveness: Letting Go of Resentment and Embracing Freedom
Forgiveness is often misunderstood as a sign of weakness or submission, but in reality, it is a powerful act of strength and...
Patrick Scara
Jun 3, 20244 min read
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Cultivating Self-Compassion: Embracing Imperfection and Self-Acceptance
In a world that often demands perfection, self-compassion can feel like an elusive concept. Yet, embracing self-compassion is crucial for...
Patrick Scara
Jun 2, 20245 min read
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The Power of Inner Child Work: Healing Past Wounds to Cultivate Wholeness
Inner child work has emerged as a transformative practice within contemporary psychotherapy, offering profound insights into how early...
Patrick Scara
Jun 1, 20245 min read
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Embracing Emotional Authenticity: Honoring Your Feelings in Relationships
In the intricate dance of human relationships, emotional authenticity stands as a cornerstone of genuine connection and profound...
Patrick Scara
May 30, 20244 min read
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Exploring the Spiritual Dimensions of Healing: Integrating Mind, Body, and Spirit in Psychotherapy
In the realm of therapeutic practices, a holistic and integrative approach stands out, transcending traditional methods by recognizing...
Patrick Scara
May 28, 20246 min read
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The Dance of Intimacy: Navigating Vulnerability and Connection
Intimacy is often likened to a dance—a delicate interplay of steps that require both partners to move in harmony. However, this dance is...
Patrick Scara
May 25, 20243 min read
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Understanding Parentification: Navigating the Effects of Early Responsibility
Parentification, a term coined by family therapists, refers to the role reversal where a child assumes responsibilities typically held by...
Patrick Scara
May 23, 20243 min read
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Nurturing Authenticity: Building Self-Trust in Relationships
In the intricate tapestry of human connections, authenticity serves as the cornerstone of genuine intimacy and trust. Yet, for many...
Patrick Scara
May 19, 20242 min read
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Ritual vs. Habit: Making Lasting Progress in Therapy
Rather than prescribing healthy habits, I encourage my clients to cultivate rituals. Rituals infuse intentionality into habits, fostering...
Patrick Scara
Mar 30, 20242 min read
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"Why Is Saying 'No' So Difficult? Exploring the Struggle to Be Disagreeable"
“No”. The ultimate word of discernment, the epitome of protection, the boundary maker. In my professional and personal experience, this...
Patrick Scara
Mar 18, 20243 min read
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"Getting to Know Me: An Introduction to My Work and This Platform."
My name is Patrick Scara and I am a psychotherapist based in western Washington state.
Patrick Scara
Mar 10, 20241 min read
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